So I went to the 4wheelparts store here in Charlotte to get my lights n switch today. Spoke to the guy who does all the wiring for the store and he came out and told me that the 40 amp relay that came with the 2 light wiring kit would be more than enough to handle the 3 lights. I can just wire them all to each other. And would also be able to wire them up to a single switch. Just waiting on the last light to come in from Raleigh should be tomorrow or the next day.
There is a lot more to consider then just weather the relay will handle the amperage.
Good luck.
FYI you do not run the power for the lights through the switch. You run power from the battery to the relay then to the lights.
All your switch is doing is supplying voltage to energize the relay.
Make sure you read you instructions and understand what you are doing.
Many of us have already had electrical issues involving these trucks eating batteries.
The computer systems on these trucks use a lot of power, if there is a problem and they see after market wiring, weather is was done by a professional or not the first thing they will do is document it and blame the problem on faulty/aftermarket wiring.